Ian and Penny were heading for divorce.
Fortunately, someone they both loved and respected suggested they seek counselling first. Or at least find someone impartial to talk to.
They reluctantly agreed.
Their pastor made the referral and that’s how they ended up in my office that afternoon.
As the session started, I let them just talk.
And they did.
Talk.
Mostly Penny.
After a few minutes I stopped her with these words:
Penny and Ian grew up on the same street.
Their parents were great friends.
They went to school together.
He was the quarterback and she led the cheer team.
They were inseparable.
They were in love.
After school, they got married and a year later, they had twin boys.
That was 20 years ago.
Now the boys are both away at school. And with the boys gone the house seemed very empty.
Penny and Ian didn’t know how to fill the void much less connect anymore.
And they were headed to court.
Penny stopped talking and gave me a hard stare that seemed to last for an age. Then she said this:
“It’s always the same. Whatever I’m doing when he walks into the room, he comes up behind me, puts his arms round me and all he wants is sex!”
Ian’s jaw hit the floor…
“You’ve got it all wrong Penny! All I was doing was giving you a hug. It’s my way of telling you I love you. Why didn’t you tell me how you felt?”
See, Penny and Ian were not communicating effectively.
It’s like they were speaking different languages to each other…
Russian and Chinese.
Certainly not plain English.
It didn’t take long to fix their problem.
The divorce got cancelled and a decade later they could not be happier.
Now they’re proud grandparents!
For many of us, Lockdown was responsible for a major breakdown in communication.
The fact is there are 5 languages that people must learn to speak to the people around them. And when they do, they have a powerful key to unlock most if not all problem situations.
The incredible fact is that your significant other doesn’t even need to possess this key.
So long as one of you uses the key and speaks the right language, things are guaranteed to change.
And if you both have the key?
Well, that’s where the magic really happens!
That’s where lives and relationships get transformed.
If you want to learn these unique languages and find out which one will make your mate melt, just reach out.
We’ll schedule a call as soon as it’s convenient for both of us and I’ll quickly teach you what you need to know and help you move to a whole new level in your personal relationship.
Yes, there is a small investment for our session ($88) but it won’t cost any extra if your mate wants to join the call.
Oh, and as a BONUS, I’ll even email you a Free copy of my book on the subject too (a $24.95 value)
You owe it to your mate.
More than that
So let’s connect now.
It will be life changing.
I promise…
Not just your mate.
But your children,
Your parents
Your friends and even
Your employer
Dr. Neil
